Donna Renee Grau (Miller)

Donna Renne Grau (Miller), 62, of Farmington, New Mexico, passed away on June 4, 2025, in Farmington, New Mexico. Donna was born in Glendale, California, on March 19, 1963, to parents Dorothy Moya and Earl Miller.

Donna was a strong and determined fighter who met life’s challenges head on including her courageous battle with cancer, which she faced with grace and unwavering strength. She never allowed cancer to stop her from living her life on her own terms. She continued to embrace each day with the same feisty spirit, unwavering confidence and a fierce love for those around her. Donna’s spirit was lively and magnetic. She was known for her playful flirting and bringing smiles to the faces of those lucky enough to share in her company. She was full of confidence and at times could be feisty and always unafraid to speak her mind. She opened up her home to many, including those who consider her a 2nd mom. Donna’s greatest joy was her family, community, and her beloved dogs “Tiny” and “Brat Brat”.

She will be deeply missed by family, friends and all those whose lives she touched. Her memory will live on in the countless acts of kindness she shared, her fighting spirit, and the legacy of love she leaves behind.

Donna is preceded by her son Steven Velasquez, and parents Dorothy Moya, and Earl Miller.

Donna is survived by daughters Angela Aulcy, Stephanie Velasquez, and Eileen Rico, brothers Joe Grau, Earl Miller, Erik (Kathy) Miller, sister Kimberly Miller, and grandchildren Sabrina (Vasquez) Martinez, Alexandrina, Gabriel Vasquez, Noah Calsada, Jason Rico Calsada, Zyionna Velasquez, and Nathaniel Fernandez.

A Memorial Service will be held Saturday, July 19, 2025, at 4:00pm at Inspired Moments Event Center 310 W Main Street, Farmington, New Mexico.